Memorial Day also encapsulates the perspectives and experiences of African Americans. The holiday explores our reflections on the sacrifices made by veterans; it is also a day of participation in traditions such as family gatherings and barbecues, a chance to advocate for equitable treatment of veterans. The holiday is also a time to honor the memories of those who served by taking part in community engagement and support initiatives.
Mark Buford, a military veteran, Chicagoland real estate developer, and finance professional, shared his military journey while recognizing and honoring veterans’ contributions to their communities.
He is among many African Americans whose posture toward the Memorial Day holiday is reverence, devotion and service.
What Memorial Day Means for This Chicagoan
Memorial Day holds a deeply personal significance for Buford. It’s a time of solemn reflection, a weekend to honor the brave men and women who made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our country. Each year, as Memorial Day approaches, he is reminded of the profound debt of gratitude we owe to those who laid down their lives for the freedoms we cherish.
[perfectpullquote align=”full” bordertop=”false” cite=”” link=”” color=”” class=”” size=””]”Memorial Day holds deep significance for me as a time to honor the sacrifices made by countless individuals and their families in service to our country. It’s a moment to reflect on the profound impact of those sacrifices on our nation’s history and to express gratitude for their dedication and bravery.”[/perfectpullquote]
Buford’s Military Service and Transformation
Entering the Navy marked the beginning of a transformative journey for Mark. He remembers feeling a whirlwind of emotions as he embarked on this chapter of his life. He joined the Navy in February 1985.
“There was a mix of nerves and excitement, as one might expect venturing into the unknown at 17 or 18. I had weighed the options between the Air Force and the Navy before ultimately deciding on the latter. Exploring engineering appealed to me, and the recruiter’s pitch sealed the deal. I remember the night before I left for enlistment, hastily shaving off the minimal fuzz on my lip to comply with military regulations. After processing at the Congress Hotel, I spent the night there before shipping off to the Great Lakes, feeling a blend of nerves and anticipation for what lay ahead.”
When military service concludes, it marks the end of a significant chapter in one’s life, often prompting reflection and consideration of the path ahead. With the routines and duties of service behind veterans, individuals may find themselves at a crossroads, contemplating their next steps.
“I initially signed up for a four-year enlistment, followed by an additional four years in inactive service. After completing my active duty, I transitioned to the reserves, attending monthly weekend sessions at a reserve station. I then pursued my college education at SIU Edwardsville near St. Louis. Interestingly, when I enlisted, the GI Bill wasn’t available, but Illinois offered educational assistance programs for veterans, which I utilized to pursue my degree in business management and marketing.”
Mark works as a real estate developer and finance professional, focusing on sourcing solutions for real estate investors. One of his primary projects is the Exchange Development, on 72nd in Exchange, a 17-story mixed-use residential tower—a significant endeavor in revitalizing urban spaces.
Though he is removed from his years in the military, his heart for fellow service members never left.
Recognizing and Standing by Veterans on Memorial Day
The African-American community can play a crucial role in supporting and honoring veterans on Memorial Day by actively engaging in commemorative activities and advocating for their recognition and welfare.
One way to show support is by participating in local Memorial Day events, such as parades and ceremonies.
Community organizations can organize outreach programs to provide support services for veterans and their families, ensuring they have access to healthcare, housing and employment opportunities. Moreover, promoting awareness of the contributions of African-American veterans throughout history can foster a greater appreciation for their service and sacrifice.
[perfectpullquote align=”full” bordertop=”false” cite=”” link=”” color=”” class=”” size=””]Buford said, “I believe there’s a multitude of ways the African American community can show support and appreciation for veterans, both on Memorial Day and beyond. This includes advocating for equitable treatment of veterans, recognizing their contributions to our nation’s defense, and ensuring access to resources and support services for veterans and their families.”[/perfectpullquote]
On Memorial Day, most African-American families observe several traditions to pay tribute to the courageous men and women who have served our country.
Some start the day by visiting local memorials and cemeteries to honor fallen soldiers by laying wreaths or flowers at their gravesites. Some gather for a family barbecue, a tradition that allows us to celebrate the freedoms they fought to protect. These traditions honor the memory of fallen soldiers and remind them of the importance of preserving their legacy for future generations.
“I have several family members who’ve served in the Army, Marines, Navy, and Air Force. We have a tradition of gathering for a local barbecue, a cherished occasion where we honor their service. During these gatherings, we express gratitude for each other’s military roles,” Buford said.
“It’s a fundamental belief of ours that veterans never leave comrades behind.”
Buford said he maintains connections with friends and organizations like “Leave No Veteran Behind” here in Chicago, founded by Roy B. Sartin and Eli Williamson, and the podcast “UnVeteran Like Conduct.”
“We’re committed to staying in touch and checking each other’s well-being, especially on Memorial Day. Prioritizing everyone’s mental health is crucial, so we address any needs before enjoying our barbecue,” he said
What Future Generations Must Recognize
To future generations, Buford expresses the utmost importance of honoring and preserving the legacy of those who have bravely served in the military.
He asserts that their courage, dedication and sacrifice serve as a beacon of inspiration for everyone, reminding us of the actual cost of liberty. We must pass down this legacy to future generations, instilling in them a profound sense of gratitude and respect for our veterans.
[perfectpullquote align=”full” bordertop=”false” cite=”” link=”” color=”” class=”” size=””]”Future generations must recognize the invaluable contributions of veterans and the importance of honoring their sacrifices. Understanding the historical context and the role of Black soldiers in shaping our nation’s history is essential. Military service can offer valuable life lessons, opportunities for growth and a broader perspective on the world,” said Buford.[/perfectpullquote]
Reflecting on Loss and Grief During Memorial Day
For those who grieve during Memorial Day, please know that you are not alone in your feelings of loss and sorrow. This day may evoke memories of loved ones who have made the ultimate sacrifice in service to our nation, and it is natural to feel a range of emotions during this time.
Buford said that those grieving can take comfort in knowing that their bravery and selflessness will never be forgotten and their legacy lives on in the hearts of all who honor their memory.
“While everyone copes with loss differently, finding pride in the sacrifices made by their loved one can offer solace. Embracing their legacy and advocating for veterans’ rights can provide a sense of purpose and honor their memory,” he said.
The Veterans Crisis Line offers 24/7 confidential crisis support for veterans and their loved ones. Call 988 Press 1 or text 988 or use the online chat function at www.veteranscrisisline.net.
For links to Chicago-area Veterans Service Organizations, visit this link.
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