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When You Need Some Advice Don’t Ask Twice… Ask Dr. Karen!  

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Dear Dr. Karen:

 

I have been divorced from my wife for several years after enduring verbal abuse towards my children and I. She is still vicious toward me and I can’t find any reasonable explanation for her anger.

She is extremely beautiful, and men flock to her, so I am puzzled why she never remarried. I continue to dream a miracle worker will appear, show her the light, and reunite us even though past counseling efforts proved ineffective. If necessary, I would beg, borrow and steal to get her back! I keep wishing and hoping.

                                                                                 Dreamer

Dear Dreamer:

Hope springs eternal. Why would you continue to dream about reuniting with a woman that is verbally abusive to you and the children? You are the prisoner of a bad dream. All the begging, borrowing and stealing will not change who she is.

Please slap yourself so you can wake up from this nightmare that you are creating for yourself.  All you have to do to be free is let go.

***Dr. Karen R. January is an expert in youth development as well as male-female relationships.  Her new book, ¨Lessons Mama Never Taught Me,¨ profiles 10 women and the mistakes they made in parenting, love and life.  It can be purchased at Amazon.com.  Please send your questions to Dr. Karen at askdrjanuary@gmail.com.

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