Dear Chat Daddy, I’m an 18-year-old male, and I just started my freshman year in college. I was raised in a single-parent household by my strict mother, and all of my knowledge about sex has come from the streets and other male friends. I was recent
Dear Chat Daddy,
I’m an 18-year-old male, and I just started my freshman year in college. I was raised in a single-parent household by my strict mother, and all of my knowledge about sex has come from the streets and other male friends. I was recently having a conversation with my new roommate about my lack of experience when it comes to sex. He told me not to worry because most of the females on campus are really easy and only want sex because they were free from being under their parents’ control. Well, all of the females I’ve met are not into having sex and they just want to date. One young lady told me that she liked me but it would be awhile before we engaged in anything other than kissing. I’m confused because it seems to me that everyone else is having sex, and I’m not. Please advise.
-Everywhere I Look There’s Nothing But Sexy Girls
Dear Everywhere I Look There’s Nothing But Sexy Girls,
Congrats on going to college. I am really concerned about the information that your roommate has given you because he’s all wrong. No sir, not all females go off to college to become sexually free. Any smart female who goes off to school should be there for a good education and not to lay up having sex all the time. Nowadays females are taking their time to consider whether or not they will be engaging in sexual activity with another person because of the high instances of contracting sexually transmitted diseases, including AIDS. It’s important to develop a certain level of trust and chemistry before jumping into bed. As a young man, the first thing you must learn is limitation because everything that looks good ain’t good for you. Since you’ve never been schooled properly about sex, make sure you take things slow before you find yourself in trouble and please wrap it up every time. Here’s to you enjoying your college years. Be encouraged.
Art “Chat Daddy” Sims can be reached via e-mail at firstname.lastname@example.org.
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