Dear Chat Daddy, My holy self is caught up in a hot mess

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Dear Chat Daddy, I’m a 36-year-old professed Christian woman with a husband and three children. For the past year, I’ve been having an affair with my husband’s fraternity brother who I met last year at a social event.

Dear Chat Daddy,

I’m a 36-year-old professed Christian woman with a husband and three children. For the past year, I’ve been having an affair with my husband’s fraternity brother who I met last year at a social event. We are so fond of each other and feel as if we are truly meant to be together. He is married with five children, and I recently found out that I am pregnant and I’m not sure by whom. I know that this entire situation is not pleasing in God’s eyes. What should I do? Please advise.

- Fornicating For All The Wrong Reasons

Dear Fornicating For All The Wrong Reasons,

Oh, Lord is this mess. I am speechless. Let us start with prayer because so much damage has been done and you must remember that the Creator loves you no matter what. On the everyday level, you and your new man need to both come clean with each other and your mates. As bitter, nasty and ugly as this is going to be, only the truth will set you all free. Seeing that you both have so much at stake, I suggest that you and your husband seek counseling so that everything can be sorted out. It is most important that you find out who the father of your unborn child is while starting the process of rebuilding the lives of your children who have to live out this awful ordeal. I am going to continue to ask that you are lifted up in prayer and that theses shackles be removed from this situation. Be encouraged.

Art “Chat Daddy” Sims can be reached at chatdaddy@chicagodefender.com.

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