Dear Chat Daddy,
I’m a 28-year-old single female who is in need of your advice. I can openly admit that I have no problem meeting or attracting men but I keep running into married men who don’t divulge to me that they are married.
Dear Chat Daddy, I’m a 28-year-old single female who is in need of your advice. I can openly admit that I have no problem meeting or attracting men, but I keep running into married men who don’t divulge to me that they are married. The number of married men that flirt with me is beginning to outnumber the single men I meet. Chat Daddy, why are so many married men not wearing their wedding rings and why do married men want to have affairs? -I Will Not Play Second Fiddle Dear I Will Not Play Second Fiddle, Great letter, sister, but this is nothing new in the world of relationships. Women live for the day that they are engaged and married so that they can sport their wonderful ring. Men, on the other hand, are oftentimes not jewelry wearers even after they get married. Now on to the subject of cheating, the number one reason that most married men cheat is from being bored with their marriage. Sad but true. Most marriages lack serious open and honest communications. Most men are not able to tell their mate that they are bored or dissatisfied with the current state of the relationship because miscommunication and misunderstandings towards each other are often used as weapons. If you are not into dating men who are married, then you need to tell them up front that you are not interested in them. Here’s to you finding the man of your dreams who is a good guy and is not in a committed relationship or marriage. One more thing: Be sure that you take a look at yourself because if you are attracting the same kind of guy, you might be part of the equation.
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